Resolving family disputes without going to court
When family relationships break down, the effects can be far-reaching – and grandparents are often among those most deeply affected. The sudden loss of contact with grandchildren after years of close involvement can be devastating, both for grandparents and for the children who lose a loved and trusted family member.
At Prettys, we believe that talking works. Wherever possible, it’s best to find solutions through open communication and understanding rather than through the courts. Court proceedings can be stressful, costly and may increase tensions between family members, making it harder to rebuild relationships in the future.
That’s why our approach focuses on alternatives to court, supporting families to reach agreements that prioritise the wellbeing of everyone involved — especially the children.
Our dispute resolution service offers several routes to achieving this, including:
- Mediation
- Collaborative law
- Informal round tables
- Expert involvement on specific issues
- Tailored processes designed to encourage constructive discussion
An early assessment of your situation helps us identify which approach best suits your family’s needs. By focusing on communication and cooperation, we help rebuild trust and achieve outcomes that last — both now and for the future.
If this approach is unsuccessful, then it may be necessary to apply for a child arrangements order. We will guide you through that process should it become necessary but it is important to consider the law surrounding such applications.
Do grandparents have legal rights to see their grandchildren?
Many people assume that grandparents automatically have the right to see their grandchildren, but under UK law, this isn’t the case.
If you’re being prevented from seeing your grandchildren, you can apply to the Family Court for a Child Arrangements Order. However, before you do this, you must first apply for permission (known as leave) to make that application.
Applying for permission to see your grandchildren
When deciding whether to grant permission, the court will consider factors such as:
- The relationship between the grandparent and the child
- The nature of the application and what is being requested
- Whether contact could be harmful to the child
- Whether allowing contact could negatively affect other family relationships
If there has been a close and positive relationship between you and your grandchildren, the court will often grant permission. However, this extra step can make the process longer and more expensive, so legal advice is recommended before proceeding.
What happens after permission is granted
Even if the court grants permission to apply, this doesn’t guarantee success. The court will consider whether contact is in the best interests of the child, applying the same welfare checklist used in all children’s law cases.
Every court decision will focus on what is best for the child – not the parents or grandparents — which is why professional guidance can make such a difference.
In summary
Grandparents’ rights in the UK are not automatic, but the courts do recognise the important role grandparents play in a child’s life.
If you’ve been stopped from seeing your grandchildren, it’s important to seek legal advice early, understand your options, and explore ways to resolve matters that focus on the children’s wellbeing and maintaining positive family relationships.
How Prettys’ Family Solicitors can help
Our Family Team includes experienced mediators, collaborative lawyers and specialists in alternative dispute resolution. We are creative, empathetic, and focused on achieving outcomes that work for the whole family.
If you’d like advice about grandparents’ contact, or help deciding the best way forward, you can contact Demelza Butler in confidence.
You can find out more about our family law services here.
